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10 Signs that Your Parrotlet Likes You

Nicole Cosgrove

When you get a new pet parrotlet, it can take some time for both of you to get used to one another. For your bird, it takes time to adjust to the new people and surroundings; for the owner’s part, you might spend a lot of time wondering if your new feathery friend is okay. When you haven’t spent a lot of time around an animal, it can be hard to interpret its behaviors. A lot of new pet owners wonder whether their pet even likes them at all.

We are here to dispel any confusion you may have. In this article, we will discuss some signs that your parrotlet does, in fact, like you.divider-birdcage

10 Signs that your Parrotlet Likes You

1. It preens when you’re nearby

Parrotlet Standing
Image Credit: Ear Iew Boom, Shutterstock

Like all animals, birds need to stay clean to be healthy. A parrotlet’s way of cleaning its feathers is preening. When a bird preens itself, it rubs its beak against its preen gland, or oil gland, in order to coat its feathers in oil. This helps keep them glossy and strong.

Preening is a fairly vulnerable activity; if your bird is uncomfortable around you, it is unlikely to preen in your presence. If you notice your parrotlet preening, you should take it as a sign that it feels comfortable around you!


2. It tries to groom you

Like a cat or a dog that might try to lick you, your parrotlet may try to groom you. In the wild, parrots preen one another, so if you notice your bird gently chewing on you, you should understand this behavior as a gesture that means your parrotlet considers you to be one of its own. Don’t confuse grooming for biting, though; a bite will be a lot less subtle than preening behavior, and usually means your bird is scared or angry.


3. It flaps its tail

You probably know that when a dog wags its tail, it means that the dog is happy or excited. Did you know that birds do the same thing? A bird that flaps or wags its tail as you enter the room is probably doing so because it is excited to see you.


4. Its pupils are dilated

Unlike humans, birds can actually control the size of their pupils based on their mood. When a bird dilates its eyes, it can be a sign that they are excited or pleased. However, dilated eyes can also mean that your parrotlet is anxious, so pay attention to context clues. If your parrotlet’s pupils are dilated and it’s doing at least one other thing on this list, that’s a very good sign!


5. It regurgitates its food

This is a weird one for us humans, but for birds, it’s perfectly natural. Bonded parrotlets in the wild regurgitate their food for one another, and as you probably know, mother birds regurgitate their food to feed their babies. If your parrot does this to you, you should take it as a huge compliment! Of course, regurgitation is not the same as vomiting; if the behavior is accompanied by other signs of physical stress, it’s probably time for a visit to the vet.


6. It sings, talks, or whistles for you

It probably isn’t very surprising that a bird that whistles or sings for you is a happy bird. Of course, it can sometimes be hard to tell the difference between happy and anxious vocalizations, since many birds “scream” when they are excited.


7. It clicks its tongue

blue parrotlet
Image Credit: klickblick, Pixabay

A parrotlet that clicks its tongue at you is trying to get your attention, often in order to be picked up or pet. A bird that doesn’t like you wouldn’t want to encourage you to come near it, let alone touch it.


8. It purrs

When a bird purrs, it sounds a little bit different from the purring sound a cat makes when it’s content. Nevertheless, the meaning is the same. Listen very carefully to distinguish the purring sound from a growl, which can sound very similar. It may be obvious, but you shouldn’t try to touch or pick up a growling parrotlet.


9. It fluffs its feathers

When your parrotlet fluffs its feathers, it can have a few different meanings. Birds often do this when they are pleased. However, it could mean that your pet is feeling aggressive. Take note of the environment when your bird is exhibiting this behavior. Is there anything that could be irritating your parrotlet or making it feel territorial, such as another bird? If not, try slowly approaching your pet to see how it reacts. If it begins to click its tongue or talk to you, you will know the fluffing is a sign of happiness rather than aggression.


10. It mimics you

No, your parrotlet isn’t trying to mock you. If you catch your bird mimicking your speech or behaviors, this is a very clear sign that it likes you and wants to fit in with you.divider-birdcage

Final Thoughts

Birds make all sorts of noises and gestures that can be confusing to humans, especially because many of those behaviors can have multiple meanings. It may take some time, but you will eventually learn to interpret your parrotlet’s behaviors. If you believe your bird does not like you, give it some space and gradually start spending more time interacting with it. Very few birds can’t be won over with plenty of treats and attention!


Featured Image Credit: klickblick ,Pixabay

Nicole Cosgrove

Nicole is the proud mom of Baby, a Burmese cat and Rosa, a New Zealand Huntaway. A Canadian expat, Nicole now lives on a lush forest property with her Kiwi husband in New Zealand. She has a strong love for all animals of all shapes and sizes (and particularly loves a good interspecies friendship) and wants to share her animal knowledge and other experts' knowledge with pet lovers across the globe.