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Where Do Budgies Like to Be Petted? Vet-Approved Guide

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Budgies make great family pets as they can be quite social and form tight bonds with their human family members. However, this isn’t a species known for its love of physical touch.

While most budgies don’t particularly care for getting pets, you may get lucky and adopt the one that tolerates touches on its head and neck. Read on to learn more about where you should and shouldn’t pet your budgie.


Why Don’t Most Budgies Like to Be Touched?

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Most birds don’t particularly care for being touched. Touch is essential to a mammal’s experience, but birds are not mammals and are not accustomed to being handled too much. In fact, budgie parents are pretty hands-off, so birds raised by their parents are trained from the get-go that touching isn’t something that needs to happen.

However, budgies can learn to tolerate being touched by their humans, but the touches must be on their terms. An untamed bird will be much less receptive to pets than one that’s been hand raised.

Of course, that’s not to say that budgies that haven’t been hand-raised will not learn to tolerate touches, though. A budgie needs to trust you first before it can enjoy getting pets. This may take some patience on your behalf, but with time your pet should learn to trust you.


Where Can I Pet My Budgie?

The best spots to pet your budgie are on the back of its head and neck.

Most birds prefer being petted in this area to anywhere else as these are the only spots on their bodies that they cannot reach themselves.

You should only give gentle head or neck scratches if your budgie allows it. Some will never tolerate being touched, and you should respect those boundaries. Others may be fine if they’re gently held between both palms but don’t appreciate being stroked, which throws them off balance.

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Where Shouldn’t I Pet My Budgie?

Budgies are prey animals and are, therefore, very tentative about being handled in certain ways or touched in some areas. This includes the underside of the wings, belly, legs, and along the back.

Humans are responsible for causing much frustration and confusion in birds when they touch them in certain ways. Constant touching or stroking of the back can be interpreted by the bird as mating behavior.


How Should I Pet My Budgie?

Build Trust

It can take a few weeks or even months before your new pet trusts you enough to let you touch it, let alone pet it. You can try to expedite the process by offering treats as rewards (and bribes). Try offering treats out of your hand while it sits on its perch. Once it’s used to taking food from your hand, try moving your fingers further from the perch until it learns to step up onto your finger to reach the treat from your other hand.

Don’t rush the trust-building process. This is an important part of building a relationship with your budgie, and you must take it slow.

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Pet the Beak

The beak is a great place to start when trying to pet your budgie. Start by lightly touching it, but be very gentle. Budgies can be very skittish, so go slowly and be careful not to get too close to its eyes.

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Touch the Head & Neck

Once your budgie learns to step up and takes to beak pets, try petting it on the back of its head. If it moves or flies away or hisses, stop at once. It may take some time to get accustomed to your touches, and some may never become comfortable with such interactions.

You can gradually shift your touch to the sides of your budgie’s head. Rub the skin behind the beak and on the sides of the head if you feel it’s giving you the green light to go ahead and do so.

When your budgie is comfortable with beak and head pets, try petting the back of its neck. Birds that enjoy pets will often love being scratched in this area.

Never pet your bird against its will. This can destroy your relationship and make it untrusting of humans.

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Final Thoughts

Budgies can learn to tolerate being petted, and some may even come to enjoy it. Of course, that doesn’t mean all budgies will take well to receiving your physical affection, though. Take it slow if you’re trying to pet your bird for the first time, and only do it on your budgie’s terms. Forcing your pet to let you touch it is a recipe for disaster, as it can make these already skittish birds afraid of you.

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